Learning Cooperation
By Elizabeth Donovan, Parenting
While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn't fun for either of you. To cut down:
Replace \"no\" with \"yes.\" Try "We sit on the couch" instead of "No standing on furniture!" Or "Yes, you can have a cookie -- right after you eat your green beans." This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
Speak up when she's good. If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she'll be more likely to hear -- and heed -- you when you reprimand.
Stay one step ahead. Limit temptation: If your child likes to root around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.
Replace \"no\" with \"yes.\" Try "We sit on the couch" instead of "No standing on furniture!" Or "Yes, you can have a cookie -- right after you eat your green beans." This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
Speak up when she's good. If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she'll be more likely to hear -- and heed -- you when you reprimand.
Stay one step ahead. Limit temptation: If your child likes to root around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.
