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ok im having all the syptoms of a boy but mother that already has kids are telling me that im having a girl i dont see how im only 13 weeks still to early to tell what he/she is and i want a boy but everyboby wants me to have a girl i dont know how to tell them to leave me alone and let me enjoy they are working on my last nerves i really want to just enjoy being pregnant and not people telling me what too do i know how to take of myself and they think that i cant well i cant wait till the day the baby is here and show them that i can take care of myself and my baby with no problem and when they see that i hope that by then they will leave me alone. im not a stuck up person at all i just dont like people telling me what to do im not five im 19 going on 20. does anyone feel this way please help me sometimes i feel so alone
asked by bubblytobemommie 2 years 36 weeks ago
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by cleighty submitted 2 years 36 weeks

I felt that way a lot with my first pregnancy. So far with this one I haven't because we haven't told anyone yet. Its getting kind of annoying cause my husband will tell everyone he works with but not his family even though I'm 26 weeks along. It will get better. Just ignore them and if that doesn't work just tell them to back off. I'm only 22 so I understand the difficulties of people still thinking and treating you like you're still a kid.

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by jeanie sandlin submitted 2 years 36 weeks

i just used in direct shut up im blowing u off answers>>such as everyone carries differant and we will have to wait and see what the ultrasound says...or when given advice say i dont know about that i think ill listen to the doctor...i have even said i dont think thats in my plan im going to do it the way my doctor and i have planned..throwing the doctor in the mix of an answer almost always shuts anyone up since they arent doctors and u are trusting a professonal instead of them

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by HGIB3 submitted 2 years 35 weeks

Symptoms mean nothing in my case.  If you think you are having a boy, you very well may be having a boy.  Everyone told me I was having a boy with my first child but surely she was NOT a boy.  I knew she was a girl before the ultrasound, I just knew.  I just knew my second was a boy, too and I was surely right then also.  Just laugh lightly and move on.  I truly wanted to laugh heavily in everyone's faces but instead gently giggled when I said I was having a girl.  Just smile and move on.

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