I'm pregnant with my first child and my fiance is really stressed out because he thinks everything is his duty and he thinks his parents are putting alot of pressure on him because they are giving him advice and such on being prepared for the big change. I want him to be with me more because he is the only person keeping me from being depressed. Alot of my friends bailed, my family is in chaos, and I have tons of classes and appts. I don't want to do it alone and I try explaining to him, but he just wants to be with his friends. It's hard for me cause then I feel like I have no one and I sit him down and try talking to him, but it always ends up in a fight. I can't go out and do anything because I have so much I have to do and I think that since it's OUR child and not just mine he should be involved more. He's starting to get harder and harder to communicate with and thinks I'm being controlling because I would like him around more often than not. I don't care if he goes out with friends every now and then, but I need him too. I'm beginning to feel like he doesn't care and isn't there for me anymore. He doesn't understand my side, only his and I don't get how to make it clear so he can understand. He's not a bad guy at all, but the unplanned pregnancy is really getting to him. He's super excited, but scared too. One of his friends tried talking him into telling me to get an abortion!! How horrible:(( Fortunately my fiance wants this baby more than anything and told me were in it together and he already loves his baby. I don't want to push him away, but can you tell why I'm not exactly crazy about him being with his friends 24/7 besides the fact that I really need the support? How can I explain to him that I need him to help me out, but not seem like I want to control his life? HELP ME PLEASE:((??