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i have horrible dreams about losing my baby, im 20 and 12 weeks along

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4 years ago
i have horrible thoughts about losing the baby, it tears me apart. i feel like my dreams r telling me im duing something wrong and im not going to make it. this baby means so much to me, and i cant even fathom the thought of it being eptopic or a miscarrige or something horrible. is this normal? i feel like im going to bring it upon myself. i juss want this to be a safe pregnancy. im just kind of scared. what do i do :( i feel like im just duing everything wrong...

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4 years ago
This sounds like normal worries to me. Every woman is afraid of losing their baby because of something they did wrong. Try not to worry. You know how to take care of yourself so just take it easy and your baby should be fine. I think we worry about being to blame for something happening to our baby because we grow them so we feel responsible for whatever happens. If you do everything right and something happens then it's not your fault and you shouldn't beat yourself up about it. Everything happens for a reason. Good luck. :)
4 years ago
Dont worry..everything should be ok. i lost a baby last yr at 12 weeks and it was horrible. but im pregnant again and just went to my 16 weeks appt and everythings good! try  not to stress over it because its not good for u or the baby.. ur almost over the hump so im sure everything will be fine. let us know!
4 years ago
With my first child, I had nightmares all the time. That I was going to lose her, this is after 2 miscarriages. I couldnt handle it, everytime i had a weird feeling i went to the doctors. They told me that your fears of what is going to happend and motherhood will make you have nightmares, It is normal, I am 7 weeks pregnant and I have had nightmares already. To me it seems completely normal, But I know that what i am doing is right and i will take care of this child just like my first. So I know it is just my mind messign with me,
4 years ago
With my first child, I had nightmares all the time. That I was going to lose her, this is after 2 miscarriages. I couldnt handle it, everytime i had a weird feeling i went to the doctors. They told me that your fears of what is going to happend and motherhood will make you have nightmares, It is normal, I am 7 weeks pregnant and I have had nightmares already. To me it seems completely normal, But I know that what i am doing is right and i will take care of this child just like my first. So I know it is just my mind messign with me,
4 years ago
thank you every body :) that means alot

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