So I am 16 weeks pregnant, we only found out when I was 9 weeks. We didn't say a word to anyone until I went for my first appointment and we knew everything was ok. (I've had a miscarriage in the past.) Once I heard the heart beat and they said every looked great I told my boyfriend everything was ok. He told his girls (14years old and 13 years old) about a week later, his sister found out because she's on my facebook (not my fault) and he told his brother last week, but he still has not told his parents. We have even been over to their house with his sister and brother and the girls and nothing was said. It's like some big secret we were all keeping. I really don't want to fight with him about not telling them but he keeps telling me he's really excited and happy and he's even showing baby bump pictures to his Aunt who i have never met but him not telling his parents just kinda makes me feel like this baby is something to hide. My whole family knew the week of the appointment. My boyfriend even told me i needed to tell my dad who I don't really talk to and haven't since i was 12. I just need someone to tell me that I'm not totally nuts, that this should bug me, and that he needs to tell them because I feel like I'm over reacting about it.