My fiance and I decided to stop trying to have a second child because

you shoudl probly tell him asap even though ur nervous because if he company is laying off he may need to find a diff job to keep enough money comming through. once you tell him im sure ull feel way better and then u both can be excited about it..good luck!

When i was pregnant with my 2nd son my husband got laid off.  It was at the start of my pregnancy and I was so worried but in the end everything worked out.  He wasn;t able to find another job for 6 months and when he did he hated it!!! Still he took it for the income and two months later landed the best job ever for himself. Things work in odd ways and maybe your husband won't be laid off.  Good luck to you and congrats on the baby!!!  Oh and btw your husband loves you and will realize at the time you guys were trying it's not your fault that when you decided to stop trying you were already pregnant.  ;)