To give you a bit of background info on the situation, my fiance/boyfriend have been together since May '09 and it's been anything but fun. I love the guy, but he's cheated on me and been emotionally abusive since day one, not to mention he was a major alcoholic. I've broken up with him numerous times and each time he begs me back. blah blah blah. cliche, i know. Well, i found out i was pregnant in July of this year, and we were broken up at the time. Once he found out he was so 'excited' and 'couldn't wait to be a dad'.. he asked me to marry him and move back in with him.. and i did, because i felt it was the right thing to do (since my dad really wasn't around much, i wanted my child's father to be in their life)
Okay, so for the first month or so, things were great. He quit drinking, stopped messing around with other girls, made his lame-o loser of a cousin move out of his apartment, he even started going to church with me. Everything was perfect.
But for SOME reason, the past few months have been absolute HELL. He screams at me, gets in my face, calls me HORRIBLE names, he's changed all his passwords on everything, quit paying his phone bill (which I now have to pay). He's totally done a 180.
I'm about at my wits end with this whole situation. I keep telling myself maybe it's my fault because of all the pregnancy hormones or something, but honestly i know it's not. He's just given up. And i he told me the other day that if i wasn't having his kid, he never would have asked me to marry him. We can't even be in the same room together. All i ever do is cry anymore because he basically ignores me, unless he wants sex.
i don't know what to do anymore. I'm hoping this is just a phase or something...