When we go over there all she does is ask "Oh how is the baby doing?" "Are you taking care of MY baby?" and other things. Doesn't even bother to ask how I am or anything, all she cares about is the baby, and she goes around and says "My baby" all the time, like she is pregnant again. This isn't her first grandchild either, so it's not the new grandma thing. I dont know if it is just the hormones or what, but I cannot stand her! I told my fiance about it and he talked to her, yet she still does it.
Also, just recently I am putting together a baby shower for some friends who will be out of state for school and such when I am closer to my due date. She called one day to talk about something and then asked me if I wanted to to make the cake. I said that it wasnt a problem and for a good 5 minutes I sat there and talked to her about the cake and everything. Yesterday we were at his sisters and she asked me what I said to their mom about the cake. I told her that I told her she could do it and his sister goes, "Thats what I thought." Apparently their mom is telling everyone that I said I would do the cake by myself and I pretty much shot her down on the idea and I made her feel bad. All because I guess she wanted to do a pacifier shaped cake and I said, "No thanks, I was thinking of a baby bottle or something." I swear she tried to pull the sympathy card with every situation, and she always tries to find a way to bad mouth me. I am kinda at the end of my rope here, and I can already tell that I am going to snap on her before the baby is due. I dont know what to do. Anyone else's mother in law or boyfriends mom like this? What can I do make it stick in her mind this is my pregnancy, and I can choose what I want for my baby shower cake. -If I even want one anymore?-