How do I get my daughter to leave daycare?!

no rudeness intended whatsoever but i think she needs advice from a mom who actually went through something kind of similair to this. your son was born last month so i dont think he'd make such a big deal at this age.

Does the daycare provider try to help in anyway? I know she may be busy but if you always come at 5 she should start having your daughter pick up and get ready so at 5 she is done playing and getting ready to leave. If you come and she is in the midst of playing you are taking her away from something really fun. I am sure you are tired and in a hurry so it is tough on the both of you. Maybe have an activity for her to do when she get home. Whether it is helping you cook, coloring, or some other fun craft while you make supper. When you get home I am sure there is a rush to get supper made, eat, bath, and bed. That can be stressful for a little one. So try not to put too much pressure on the rushing for her. I know with my daughter who will be 3 this month that the more pressure on her the more she falls apart.

Hey Mommys!

Thank you so much for your answer and helpful advice. Phoebe has done awesome the last two days. Her teacher was very supportive in helping me on Friday by peeking her head out the door and asking my daughter to show her our car. Today, I stayed in the room and played with her and all the other kiddos and by the time 20 min. had passed, she was ready to go! I also kept mentioning to her that it was time to get going so we could make dinner and help our dog. I praised her highly when we got to the car! It was such a relief! I think that may be the trick. I'm more willing to play in the room for an extra 15-20 min. than go outdoors when it's chilly! And yes, I'm usually exhausted because I'm a teacher, but I try to be as patient as possible!

Thanks so much!!