I'm a divorced mother of 3 boys; ages 13,11, & 6. Ex-husband & I have had an on-off relationship since our divorce 4 years ago with no one knowing but us, in other words just sex. He was my highschool sweetheart whom I still love to this day. Divorce wasn't something I wanted but it happened. When we get along its good but the majority of the time it seems we don't get along. We both have been in other relationships but always seem to come back to each other. I feel as though GOD keeps bringing us back together but apparently not. Anyway, I am now expecting our 4th child and we aren't even on speaking terms. Says he'll do what he can but he has a girlfriend. He doesn't want to talk, asked if he wanted to get back together & he has said he's not interested. I'm asking for ideas on how to make peace without him, haven't been able to do that. Also, I was at one point closer to his family than my own & since the divorce they want nothing to do with me. It's been hard these last 4 years getting help from him & his family for the boys & now here comes another. It's driving me crazy.