My sister went through the same thing today, except her bf abused her and is now going to prison (fortunately). She was 10 weeks and went in cause she was badly beaten and worried about the baby and unfortunately no heartbeat. I went through the same thing my first pregnancy, and lost it at 10 weeks (same for her) all you can really do mourn in your own way, talk about it with someone who will just listen to you (helps alot) cry (it feels really good to let that out), and you have to believe that youre baby is in a better place living a perfect life and you are still a mommy and next time (if you want one) dont stress that it will happen again (it's not very likely). Talk online with women who have experienced the same thing, that helped me. There are support groups and such. I am so sorry for your loss :(( It is an unfortunate terrible thing to go through and I would wish it upon no one. I am deeply sorry and I hope everything turns out well with you. I also let mine pass naturally (it is very painful, but I felt more right about it). You have my prayers and wishes.