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i caught my husband looking at porn

9 answers
3 years ago
i know im kinda fat but i am preggo and i have strech marks but he was ok with that i know he really truly super loves me but i feel unnatractive and hes making it worse we havnt had sex in like 1 month and thats a long time for us i dont know what i should even do about it

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3 years ago
i have never cared, and still don't if my husband looks at porn. it's not a big deal to me. some women don't think like me, though. talk to him about it, and tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable. try to initiate sex if you want it. don't make him come chase you down to get some.
3 years ago
I won't worry about.  Most men dont want to have sex while their ladies are pregnant.  Like  azriona said If you can't beat 'em - join 'em.  I think that is the best advise you will ever get!
3 years ago
if sex is what you need, then you need to talk to him. he can't read your mind, nor does he want to, i'm sure. you can't expect him to initiate sex every time. that's just not fair. if you want it, then go get it.
3 years ago
i totally agree with you on that one i have asked him about the subject and he says he doesnt want to
3 years ago
I had that problem when I was pregnant. Sometimes, it's best to either go along with it or just take a girls night out and make yourself feel pretty again. And like everyone is saying, talk to him. Don't try to corner him; that'll put up his defenses and get you nowhere.
3 years ago
if he doesn't want sex, and you just have to have it, then i suggest that you invest in a toy of some sort. vibrator, dildo, whatever you like. if you are too shy to go into a sex shop to buy it, then purchase something on the internet. adamandeve.com is great.
3 years ago
lol pickpaisley its not that i want sex i just want to feel loved again he acts  like i dont even matter
3 years ago
i have to disagree.  pornography warps how we view the human body and sexuality.  it gives us unrealistic expectations and can lead to a warped view of love.  unfortunately pornography is very easy to become addicted to.you should talk to him.  be honest but not forceful.  let him know how it makes you feel.  that you want his intimate time to be with you, not with the computer. 
3 years ago
you don't want sex?  because you posted something that said, "at this point in my pregnancy, i need sex."

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