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I hate my husband...

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3 years ago
Hi every one I am 6 wks pregnant and am very happy about it. But suddenly I hate everything about my husband, his smell, his touch, his face. I feel strong surge of hatred towards him. is it normal?

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3 years ago
That's a fairly common reaction during pregnancy. It's caused by your hormones, so it will go away eventually. With my first pregnancy I hated my husband's smell too, but it stopped around the time my morning sickness stopped. I also wasn't interested in sex at all for the first trimester of each of my pregnancies. Hormones do weird things to us during pregnancy. You may feel kind of crazy right now but it will stop. If not during your pregnancy, then after your baby is born.
3 years ago
Haha it is definitely normal. I thought I was crazy! Before we found out I started to hate him sooo much. He would try to cuddle with me at night and i would push him away and tell him to get off me and leave me alone. I would snap at everything he said and truly wanted nothing to do with him. We were both heartbroken because we thought our relationship was falling apart for no reason. We found out about 2 weeks after this started and it continued for awhile after but I tried to control myself once i knew and after that we became closer than we had ever been and have been that way ever since. It will pass, just be patient and try to control any bad feelings you have towards or about him and all will be okay :) Good luck!!!!
3 years ago
i agree a 100% percent, this is soo normal. i hated how my husband smelt. its like he could not smell good even coming out of the bath tub. men stick and we dont realize this until we are pregnant. funny thing i even left to go stay with my grandparents for a few days just to escape the smells ..it gets better..:)
3 years ago
I can relate, in the beginning of my pregnancy I couldnt stand anything about my husband! Now im 22wks. and he may not stink any more, but i still cant stand him. So hopefully it will pass.
3 years ago
I can relate, in the beginning of my pregnancy I couldnt stand anything about my husband! Now im 22wks. and he may not stink any more, but i still cant stand him. So hopefully it will pass.
3 years ago
I can relate, in the beginning of my pregnancy I couldnt stand anything about my husband! Now im 22wks. and he may not stink any more, but i still cant stand him. So hopefully it will pass.
3 years ago
I can relate, in the beginning of my pregnancy I couldnt stand anything about my husband! Now im 22wks. and he may not stink any more, but i still cant stand him. So hopefully it will pass.
3 months ago
I Just came across this post because I am so frigging pissed off. I'm 13 weeks pregnant, unplanned, we were scared at the start but started to get used to it. My bf works early morning right through to night so I hardly get to talk to him. Also he lives abroad which makes it harder. He said last night that tonight we could Skype after work so when it reached 10pm I had to give in to sleep as I have work early tomorrow. After I txt to say I'm going to sleep he sent me a picture of a football pitch saying he's playing football after work. It's 1.30am there!!! I feel so pissed off like he just doesn't care about me that much anymore and anytime I try to talk to him he just says omg ur so negative and just complain and make me feel down. I feel like I can't even talk to him about anything and that he just doesn't care that much anymore. He used to send me morning texts before he went to work and now if I don't txt first I don't hear from him all day. Like when he sent me the picture tonight he didn't even wait to ask me how I was. Just said were playing football after work then offline knowing that I'm at home. Right now I just feel like what's the point of me even being with him . He's so selfish!

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