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I have got miscarriage

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3 years ago
I'm 24 year old. I have completed 2 years of my marriage. I was taking precaution pills for not getting pregnant for 9 to 10 months. And in this addition I got pregnant twice but I dnt wanted it & that time i took pill to abort it. And now I was pregnant but after 2 months i got miscarriage & doctor specified that it was twin pregnancy & it was not developed & they advised me to come for curation. I had my curation on 17th March'11. Now I'm worried that will i get pregnant again & please advise me the best time to plan my pregnancy. Specify the month & time. Please help me out. I'm dammmm worried.

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3 years ago
As long as everything with you was ok, youll be fine to have children in the future. I had a miscarriage in november and am now 7 weeks pregnant. They do advise no to get pregnant unil you go through at least one menstral cycle after a miscarriage which mine was 8 weeks after my surgery. If you want to get pregnant soon after that, I would advise not taking the pill because it takes a few months for it to completly leave your system and allow you to become pregnant. I would recommend using condoms. If you dont want to get pregnant anytime soon, continue with the pill until 3 or 4 months before plan to get pregnant. After I stopped the pill (had taken it for 6 years.) it took me 5 months to become pregnant. Good luck to you!
3 years ago
If you want to get pregnant sooner than late use condom as that way you'd be able to control when you can try to concieve. If you're not wanting children yet and want to take the pill I'd suggest using condoms as well as it seems you have become pregnant before while on them. It's a precaution to take for yourself. As for the time it takes once stopped taking the pill before coming pregnant, I think it's really depends person to person. As for me I'd stop taking the pill and that'd be the last period I'd see as I was pregnant. Happened like that all three times. If the doctor even said that there was any damage then you are perfectly fine to carry a pregnancy to term so no worries.
3 years ago
you have no idea how to use proper grammer. i got miscariage? it's i had a miscariage. precaution pills? it's called birth control. honestly, i don't know how you sleep at night, knowing that you aborted your baby all by yourself. sounds like you are pretty fertile. you need to make a decision- you either want children, or not. sounds to me like you are not ready for that responsibility. yes, i'm judging you. you are asking for everyone to do the same by posting something like this on the WORLD WIDE WEB! if the pills are not working for you, then you should talk to your obgyn about alternative birth control meathods. depo shot, nuva ring, the patch, iud, or the arm implant.  
3 years ago
if you dont want a baby just use condoms they work plus you can get nuva ring it works really good theres alot of other options then waiting untill you get pregnant just to abort the baby theres 16 year olds out there that get pregnant or little girls that are raped and they are only like 11-12 years old do you think they want a baby no there just kids but even they wont kill their own baby its just sad that you would acually kill your own baby i think if you wouldnt kill it after it was born then why kill it before that either way its your baby and i think that if your not responsible enough to hadle what come along with haviing unprotected sex then i dont think you should be having sex at all and if you can kill your own child your a murderer in my book theres people out there who cant get pregnant or people who really want babies why not just put it up for adoption istead of murdering it
3 years ago
If you have regular monthy periods, why not check out Natural Family Planning? It's non invasive, doesn't require a pill or abortion and can help you understand your body more. http://www.nfpandmore.org
3 years ago
Yeah, I love how people can make rude comments about other people's grammar but can't even spell right. The person posting may not have the best grammar, and from what I can tell is probably from a different country and was translating to English, but they're not on here for an English lesson, they're on here for advice about pregnancy and such.P.S. You spelled "grammar" wrong, "miscarriage" and "meathods" are spelled wrong, too. And to further emphasize the irony of you commenting on her grammar, you didn't even capitalize anything in your comment that *should* have been capitalized.TYVMREFERRING TO:""by pinkpaisley8709 submitted 3 weeks 2 days you have no idea how to use proper grammer. i got miscariage? it's i had a miscariage. precaution pills? it's called birth control. honestly, i don't know how you sleep at night, knowing that you aborted your baby all by yourself. sounds like you are pretty fertile. you need to make a decision- you either want children, or not. sounds to me like you are not ready for that responsibility. yes, i'm judging you. you are asking for everyone to do the same by posting something like this on the WORLD WIDE WEB! if the pills are not working for you, then you should talk to your obgyn about alternative birth control meathods. depo shot, nuva ring, the patch, iud, or the arm implant.  ""

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