Hey guys, my name is dina, I couldn't think of anyone to ask so I made this account. I'm 14, and 4 years ago I met my boyfriend alex. We started out being friends,good friends, and then after 2 years of knowing him we started going out. My mom doesn't really know most of my friends, and I am not allowed to date so I didn't tell her about alex being my boyfriend. We have been happily dating for a while now, I started to feel guilty about her not knowing about alex so I was gonna tell her. But alex used to smoke pot, and bongs and stuff, so I thought se would make usss break up, so I didn't tell her. I told him that I couldn't be with him if I had to worry that he was gonna overdose every day, so he quit drinking,doing drugs,smoking. And has been clean for about 4 months now, We had sex june 10th 2012, And it's hard for me to not talk about all these things to my mom but I am worried that she will be mad that I didn't tell her for 4 years.I never thought our relationship would be serious but it is, and I understand that I am young but I know how to love.I don't know how to tell her without hurting her.How can I tell my mother without it her heart getting broken?