Oh my goodness, why would you even WANT to take on that kind of responsibility at 14 years old? Parenting looks easy, but are you really ready for staying up all night and all day with a newborn? First of all pregnancy is hard enough as it is, and with your age, the delivery would put you at a risk of all kinds of things. Babies are not easy, I would know. Not to mention the fact, your 14, how long have you and this potential boyfriend been together? Im not trying to sound harsh hun, but if you get pregnant, you have to think, would he actually stick around? Some guys say they will, until they realize just how hard parenting is, or they get bored. Or just want someone else, because at 14, you cant tell me that you know for a fact that you guys will be together forever. And being a single mom is NOT easy! I would know first hand. My sons real dad told me he would be around, and he ran the 2nd month of my pregnancy, I was 18 and he was 20...and even at that age guys havent grown up completely. He was a douche bag, and I hope for your sake if you do get pregnant, that your man WOULD stick around, but hunny its not always guaranteed! He may mean what he says now, but that doesnt mean he cant change his mind. My sons dad wasnt around the whole pregnancy and then saw my son when he was about 3 weeks old, then bailed again, and didnt see him again til he was 3 months old, and then bailed once again, and he has never to been seen since then. I was lucky enough to find a man who actually gave a crap, he considers my son his own, and we are happily married now. But just because my son has someone to call daddy, doesnt mean it makes it hurt any less! The fact that I made an unwise decision to have a child so young, with someone I hadnt been with for very long at all, I feel like a bad mom. It sucks. ALOT! And you shouldnt have to go through the same heartbreak that I go through every day for a dumb decision. Dont get me wrong, I do NOT regret my son, but his real dad is a moron, and I feel bad for it. How do you tell your kid that there parent didnt want anything to do with them???? Its got to be the hardest thing, and I havent had to have that talk yet, and I dont know what Im going to say, honestly, I think about it every day! PLEASE, dont do it, you are throwing away your childhood! And you dont know what kind of risks come with it! I sure didnt, and now I do...and its complete heartbreak every day. I love my son to death, but every time I look at him, all I see is his real dad...he looks just like him, and it hurts that he refuses to be around for him.