your not allowed to go near your 3 year old sibling? what's that all about? you are only 16, which means that you are just now able to work, and drive. i think you have been watching too many episodes of 16 and pregnant, on mtv. it's given you the idea that having a baby at your age can be glamourous, but you could not be further from the truth. you have no idea what it takes to raise a baby. so you love babies, that's great. doesn't mean that you should be having them at your age. and if your a lesbian, than you would be looking into some type of artificial insemination. no doctor in their right mind would help you with that, and if they do, they should lose their liscense. enjoy your youth, it will be over so much faster than you think. i don't want to be supporting another teen mother on welfare, wic, medicaid, food stamps, etc. that's not what it's there for. but sadly, most times that's why it is used. have you discussed this with your parents? i'm 23 with a 21 month old daughter, 4 pit bulls, and i'm 8 weeks pregnant with my second. trust me, you have plenty of time to have babies later on in life. now is not the time.