It's true, judging from his actions he can't be a good man, and I don't think you should want someone like this around so badly. You have a baby to raise now and this is not a situation to take lightly. Also, how will he be with a child? Do you know him well enough to know if he is even capable of being a good Dad?I agreed with everyone else, forget about him and find yourself a good man who hopefully may even be willing to help you raise your child. Your child is the most important thing right now, put your baby first. Regardless of what you do, I think you should take legal action and file for sole custody of your child. Remember, pending a DNA test, right now he had legal rights to this baby too. If he wanted to, he could take your baby and run and the police wouldn't be able to do a thing about it if he's the Dad. Legally it's not kidnapping, it's parenting.File for sole custody so you alone have all right to your baby and get a court order to make him pay child support. Seriously you don't want this man around. It will definately be tough being a single mom, but you will have the new love of your life when you have your baby. Good luck.