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well< I would first suggest that you look on the internet at all the bay development milestones week by week in your pregnancy, and see that baby developing, then ask yourself if that human forming is worth the pain and mental anquish you will have the rest of you life over doing an abortion. (trust me you will think about more than you know) If you have a good doctor then they can help you thru your preganacy minimizing your risks. good luck to you, and it is your choice not your moms!
I am really shocked at the politics going on in this page. Dalacan, this is not the place to get medical advice. Talk to your doctor, and please don't allow these uninformed answers to influence your decision either way, or to make you feel any guilt should an abortion become necessary (whether for medical or personal reasons). Good luck, and I wish you and your family the best.
Please don't have an abortion. I understand that there is a time and place for respecting your parents wishes but this is between you and the life you carry.
There are hundreds of places that you can get advice and you could take a poll. But this is a decision you must make yourself. Yes you do need to seek professional help from a doctor or counselor. There are free counselors at Focus on the Family, they even have a great website.
Yes this is your choice, your life. Yet what about your child's choice? His life? If you are not up to caring for the child place him up for adoption. Trust me there are many willing couples out there who long to have a child but can't.
As for your health I hope and pray you do seek help. Modern technology and medicine are amazing! Doctors can do alot these days.....
seriously? no one can tell you what to do with your body. you have to think about what you want. don't listen to these people telling their opinion. you think really hard on what you want and completely disreguard everyone else. your mom, the people on this website, and other outsiders don't have any thing to do with your decision. if you want to know if it's too late to have an abortion, google it or something. don't ask an actual person because they'll just try to influence you and this is a very personal decision.
Ill agree with some things posted recently but others not so much, this is not political or religious in anyway. The girl just has some concerns about the issue and questions. (she stated she really doesnt want to but mom is concerned) We cant push our veiws on you in anyway, nor should we, just trying to help you and your mom see the effects and aftermath. And it is your choice no one elses. (how old are you? just curious) This wil be hard for me to put out here but here goes,(im sure ill get attacked by others reading this, but I hope it helps you in any way)..
I will tell you from experince of having this procedure done at 18, (same month I turned) that you may or WILL regret it, it seems like a solution at the time and unfortunlety I was talked into it big time by the guy I was with (engaged to), but at 18 I never thought about the mental effects that linger how many years later, they dont tell you those things. (the what If's) I look at it now and no matter how I try to justify it, I took a innocent life, for what? why? selfish of me-yes. but I had different circumstances than you. I now have 2 amazing children and a wonderfully understanding husband about my ordeal. However depending on how serious your medical issue is, you should totally want to go thru all of the best options for yourself as well with a Doctor!. we dont know your circumstances, only advice like you asked (I would sugest to stay away from planned parenthood and places like that and go to your medical doctor that knows your history or can refer you to someone more special) again good luck sweetie..keep us posted..
Please disregard the person who told you God will never forgive you. The Lord forgives and he welcomes aborted children into his arms. It may not be his plan for you to have an abortion, but your health concerns may be serious. God is merciful, understanding, and above all, forgiving. Good luck with your dilema! I hope things work out between you and your mother.










