Middle name that sounds great for Faith (if girl), or Noah (if boy)?

Why don't you have the baby's father come up with middle names that he likes so that you can consider those, since he's the one who wants a middle name. His suggestions are the ones that matter, not strangers.

you are right. i don't know your story so i won't pretend i do. what i suggest is a really simple middle name that won't over power the first name. like lee(for either sex). or if your boyfriend is up to it try a compromise and just use a letter that has special meaning. like if your father is named jack, but you don't want to use that name just use J. Noah J. Smith. you would still be honoring your loved one and making your boyfriend happy and make yourself happy with a subdued middle. also, since you choice soft religious names choose a soft religious middle name like faith noel smith. hope i helped.

Whoa. There's really no need to get so upset/defensive. I'm not pretending to understand your situation. You haven't given any details about it, so no one has anything to go on anyway.

My suggestion that you have your baby's father think of ideas for a middle name is not negative. He's the one who wants to have a middle name, why not just leave it to him to find one that you like?