My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half now. We got pregnant when we've only been together for 5 months. He still hasn't told his parents about our baby girl and I don't know what else to do anymore. All his co-workers knows he has a kid, and so does his friends. I don't know how he can juss keep this a big secret to his family. He does a lot for us, its not like hes a total deadbeat. He buys her everything she needs. He says he loves our baby and I, but it doesn't seem like it because he won't embrace it and let his family know about her and about us. It's killing me inside because I want his family to know about our daughter. I have tried everything in my power to tell him to please tell them. He still hasn't told them and now our daughter is 5 months old in a few days. Need I remind you that I've been at his parents house every day up until the day before I went into labor and I was 40 weeks & 5 days pregnant. Yeah his mom had her suspicions but everytime she'd ask he'd deny it like he was trying to hide the fact that he was having a baby, like he was ashamed of us, me, and our soon arriving child. He won't live with me, because he doesn't want to tell anyone about us and about her. He's never even stayed the night to help, I've been taking care of her by myself every night while he goes home and acts like nothing is different, or that he doesn't have a family on the side. I juss don't understand because its not like were teenagers. I am 21 and he will be 22. Another reason why this is hurting me inside is because he never knew his father, or his fathers family because his father walked out on him and his mother. And what he is doing now to our daughter is the same thing as what happened to him. He didn't know his other family. Now our daughter is walking in the same footsteps and she has no choice. Ive tried everything to make him tell his family, now I'm running out on things to do. I'd tell him that I'm going to tell them myself, call them, write them letters even show up at their house. But he juss goes crazy when I say I'm going to do that. I juss need someone to let me understand what I should do, let me know that everything is going to work out, and that i'm not the only one going through something like this.