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my daughter is 12 and has huge breasts

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3 years ago
my daughter is 12 turning 13 in march and she is a size 34 d cup and she is five 4 in height she wants to do ballet but it is hard for her to do sports or wear some clothes is this normal what should i do

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3 years ago
It is normal. For the bra, have her go to a department store where they have people trained that can help her find the right kind for sports and every day activities. Make sure she is covering them up when she dresses or you'll have issues with boys.
3 years ago
i agree with AAWM......my mom had the same problem with me when i was 11 but she didnt care how i dressed (i was a missfit) and thnx to her not showing to cover up i lost my V-card at 12. i was prego at 16 but i lost the baby:(  im 16 1/2 right now n when i turn 17 im gonna try again
3 years ago
Well every child is different so they come in all sizes. I think the whole sports thing if you get one size bigger it might be big on her but it will fit in her breats area. And plus you can find sports that she can play no matter how big her breats are so don't worry about that. another thing to help is getting a great bra if you go to the teen or junior department you can find a bra that fits her good and gives her support.
3 years ago
Girls develop at different rates, there's nothing abnormal about your daughter's development. Take her to a lingerie store or to a department store to have her measured so she can find a bra that fits properly. The employees can also help get her sports bras that will hold her well enough that she can dance and play sports comfortably. Definitely teach her about modesty and make sure she wears age appropriate clothing. Also make sure to teach her about interacting with boys as normal social relationships will begin to change for her. 
3 years ago
@gothic_teen I strongly urge you not to get pregnant any time soon. My mom had me when she was 18 and both our lives were nothing but difficult because of it. She had to wait to go to college until I was in school and we were always poor. Her relationship with my dad wasn't good so she raised me herself. She was always working and/or going to school and when I wasn't in day care I was home by myself. She was too young to know how to parent a child well and my childhood was nothing but miserable.Raising children is a lot of work and it's difficult even under the best of circumstances. I'm a stay at home mom of two and I'll be having a third baby in December. I love my kids more than anything and I absolutely wouldn't change anything about my life. I completely understand the desire to have children, at 6 years old I was positive I'd be a better mom than the one I had. But it's not a job for teenager. You need to finish high school, go to college and have a good job and stable relationship before you even think about having children. You need to be able to give your child the best life possible and you can't do that as a teenager. You haven't lived enough yet. You haven't gotten to enjoy your youth or a committed relationship with another person. Please, please, please wait to have a child.
3 years ago
@VforVenture  i agree with you when you say she should wait because shes young . but i dont agree with what you said about how you cant be a good mother if your a teenager . im 18 and expecting my first baby in january . me & my boyfriend have been together for 4 years & we both finished high school & are electricians . we live together & we are going to be great parents . so just because im 18 doesnt mean i wont give my son the best life he can have . cuz i promise you i will .
3 years ago
@VforVenture  i agree with you when you say she should wait because shes young . but i dont agree with what you said about how you cant be a good mother if your a teenager . im 18 and expecting my first baby in january . me & my boyfriend have been together for 4 years & we both finished high school & are electricians . we live together & we are going to be great parents . so just because im 18 doesnt mean i wont give my son the best life he can have . cuz i promise you i will .
3 years ago
@vforventure in a way yes i should wait.   in a way i dont have to if i dont want to. i go to a school were i only have to go for at least 3hours a day and those 3hours start when ever i want them to start i can go either at night or during the day right now im during the day cuz i work at k-mart at night for 5 hours then i go to taco bell and work 8 hours. and i love it i need 220 to graduate from high school and i already have 210 i can get the other 10 credits i need in 8 days tops. thats why im only gonna wait till i turn 17 to get prego i turn 17 in jan so in 5 months ima try and i know id make i great teen mom i raised 7 of my moms kids thanks u very much
3 years ago
theres people at stores that can help you find the right clothes she just developed a year or two faster than what average do that doesnt make her abnormal though

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