In need of some name help.

We use the Social Security names database to check on the popularity of names, both nationally and in our state. Rosalie is well out of the top 100, it's really not popular at all, especially in New Mexico, where we live. (Spanish names are the most popular here.) 

I'm torn between Vivienne and Rosalie. I just can't figure out which I like better and when I think I've made up my mind it changes the next day. I'm thinking I'll just have to wait until i meet her...

I was thinking about Vivienne Rosalie, and I like that a lot. But, my only hesitation is that it would give her the same initials that I have. That's probably not a big deal, but I don't know. I feel like I'd be giving her the name I'd choose for myself, which is good in a way, but it feels a little awkward, especially since I already have another daughter. I wouldn't want to play favorites with names, you know? But I do like it.

I just feel scared because this makes me feel like I don't know what I'm doing. It really, really bothers me, more than I can fully explain. My husband and I have both always hated our names so choosing good ones for our kids is extremely important to us. And like I said, I knew immediately what my other kids names were. With Audrey, that was the first name my husband and I agreed on and then we could never come up with anything else, not even a boy's name. With Harrison, I knew I was pregnant with a boy before I could even get a positive pregnancy test and I knew his name immediately.

This time around it's been so different. From the beginning I've always had two names going. I thought I was sure about Nora Charlotte, but I also liked Vivienne. We agreed on Nora, but about halfway through my pregnancy my husband decided he didn't like Nora, and he decided on Vivienne. I was good with that until I fell in love with Rosalie. I think it's a really sweet, beautiful name that works for all ages.

But I still love Vivienne. I'm torn, and it's driving me crazy. I have at most 10 weeks left to figure this out and I could not be more stressed about it. I'm really thinking that maybe I'll just have to wait until she's born. For each name I have a different picture of what she'll look like, so maybe I need to wait and see what color hair she has. 

Yeah, that's how I think it's going to be this time around. It just stresses me out because my first two weren't like that. For some reason I just can't get a good read on this baby. And like I said in one of your posts, for some reason I keep thinking I'm having twins, even though I know I'm not. I just feel like there's going to be some big surprise (a good one) when she's born and I don't know what it means. But that's definitely the reason I can't decide on a name. I feel like things aren't the way they seem but I don't know what that could mean. I know she's healthy, her ultrasound was perfect. I know that she's a girl from the u/s and from my pregnancy symptoms. I just feel like there's something unexpected and it's really making me crazy!