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2 years ago
OH let me share this with you mommies! Last night I went to foodlion to get my son food,milk and us tacos for dinner well as I was getting sour cream my husband decided to scared me! i didnt know he was at foodlion and he VERY quietly unbuckled my sons belt to the cart and took him out ( I ALWAYS KEEP MY HAND ON THE CART) as I turn aro...und to check on bentley, I see someone taking my son! OMG I almost had a HREAT ATTACK! After I knew it was my husband I couldnt help but laugh! He is in the army and had drill so he had his uniform on so it was easy to see it was him BUT after I got home it made me think THAT COULD REALLY HAPPEN! from now on I will keep my hand on my son and not just the cart! Please keep an eye on your little ones!

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2 years ago
Yikes, that's too scary!I always make sure I can see my kids when I'm out with them, but my husband is less careful. He'll park the cart t one end of the aisle and walk halfway down without bringing the cart with him. I'm so terrified of my kids being kidnapping and he just doesn't understand my paranoia.
2 years ago
I keep my kids where I can see them for the most part. You know when you reach in a cooler for milk you have to take your eyes off for a second. But right now my son has a built in alarm. If anyone came to take him he would scream they just have to look at him. He has a little bit of an issue with strangers or anyone but mom.
2 years ago
thats what i did sjvanderwey, I looked away to get some sour cream off the shelf still had my hand on the cart but still VERY scary!
2 years ago
I try not to go grocery shopping with my kids, it's too much of a hassle. But when I do I spend more time focusing on keeping them out of trouble than I do actually picking up the food. My one concern is that Audrey has to walk now and she likes to wander a little. I guess it's a good thing we'll be having another baby in a few weeks. Once she's here I won't be taking the kids to the store, or my husband will be doing the shopping.
2 years ago
Yeah I try and go when my husband can watch them. It is easier to get in and get done and get out. My daughter is 2 1/2 and I put her in the basket of the cart but that means we run out of room. I would spend more time telling her not to touch things then actually shopping. I was so nervous the first time out with two.I think the worst is clothes shopping or going to a mall. I went once with out a stroller for my daughter she was not even 2 yet. I got nothing done spent more time running after her. Even in a stroller they can reach and grab things.
2 years ago
Yeah I try and go when my husband can watch them. It is easier to get in and get done and get out. My daughter is 2 1/2 and I put her in the basket of the cart but that means we run out of room. I would spend more time telling her not to touch things then actually shopping. I was so nervous the first time out with two.I think the worst is clothes shopping or going to a mall. I went once with out a stroller for my daughter she was not even 2 yet. I got nothing done spent more time running after her. Even in a stroller they can reach and grab things.
2 years ago
Yeah, it's definitely rough. I shop at Trader Joe's and they have smaller shopping carts, so there's no way I could have Audrey ride. If we go to a bigger grocery store we try to get a cart that has the car in fron so both kids can ride and have fun, but that doesn't happen often. I like my organic food! We almost never take the kids to the mall. It's just too much of a hassle. They get too restless and Harrison is naughty, he'll grab whatever he can reach. It's also too difficult to maneuver the double stroller through the stores. Audrey is 3, so I've taken her with me while I went clothes shopping and she's been pretty good. But there's no way I'd take both kids.Now I'm worried about how things will go with three kids! Luckily Harrison is finally ok with holding hands while walking and since I'm getting a wrap I'll have both hands free even with the new baby. But still, if I have to take them all it's going to be interesting!
2 years ago
I had a simular situation with my daughter, I went to the park and my husband was gonna get subs and meet me and the kids there. My daughter who was 2 at the time was playing in the sandbox and I was on the bench, but my son said he wanted, a capri sun so I leaned over to get one out of the diaper bag in the stroller, then I seen my daughter walking to a car with some guy. Turns out it was my husband and she wanted to help him carry the food, I had a heart attack and freaked out but then laughed when I saw it was him, but it does make you think before turning your back on your kids. I always put my kids in the cart but it could happen.

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