Oceana, If I made you fel bad in any way I apologize. The thing is the more you try to convince others that you are right or honest the worse you sound. Venture is right that trying to win a losing battle just continues the cycle. Because I have had people close to me lose babies, miscarriages and still borns, It makes it that much more infiriarating when you are on here saying that you miscarried four of you quintuplets, than you miscarried another baby and had to explain how because others doubted that. Than when you and your hubby were going to start trying again, tahduh your pregnant again 7 weeks, but than the next day another miscarriage. For someone who is so young it makes a hard to believe story. If you have lost a baby, I am truly sorry for your loss! I could never imagine losing something that I want that badly. If you havent you need to seek some serious help for the health of yourself and your family. I am not a mean person, I am a mother of three beautiful children who has watched others around me suffer through losses. If you want another baby let your body rest. Doctors say it is best to space pregnancies 18-24 months apart. Good luck on that front!