Three months pregnant, gained weight,feel discusting around my man.

For anyone who has been overweight and then come to their ideal, it's really hard. I did the same thing. I'm 5'8" so I can carry a little extra weight, but I don't like to. I had been 182 and then went to my ideal. Then I got pregnant. By the time I had my baby (very late) I was 206! (I did have conditions that pushed that number up) Needless to say, throughout the entire thing, and then after as well, it was very hard. My son is 9 months, and I am just now back to my pre-prego body.

The struggle is a self-view. I also struggled with being healthy because of the numbers (oh, how I hate the numbers!). The key is healthy. Keep excercising, eat right, and know that you're setting yourself up for a better recovery and shorter time to your pre-pregnant self. Remember that nothing is more important than a healthy baby.

If you're able to see yourself differently, the problems with your fiance will go away. He probably doesn't even notice the weight. Buy yourself something new that makes you feel great just the way you are right now. There's nothing like a new outfit to make you feel confident and sexy. :-)

Same thing happened to me. I told him about it, and he said 'I actually find pregnant women very attractive'. and it helped a LOT. :)  I have also had a few guy friends tell me that they also find pregnant women attractive.