ive been ttc for mths now n im very frustrated. my last cycle was 12.8.11. anyways my fertile days were on 12.17.11 to 12.21.11 n i had sex on 12.17.11. now, i hav one kid now (boy) n im afraid to get my hopes up n think i "might" be preggo b/c every mth i try im disappointed. i found this website called babyhope.com n i put in my last cycle n it gave me my fertlie days ttc n it says tht best chances to conceive a girl was the 17th n 18th. i do kno tht if u wanna hav a girl ur suppose to hav sex a few days b4 ovulation n to conceive a boy as close to ovulation. well, i succeeded on the boy. my worries r tht my age n a woman loses eggs n becomes less fertile by 45. NO! im not 45 or 40 YET! i already hav the problem w/fertility n always hav so i take clomid to help (thts how i got my boy QUICKLY lol). well, it seems tho i keep missing my timing but i do kno when i ovulate by the pains n twinges i get on one side of my ovaries n the mucous. im at the end of my rope n about to give up but, i dnt want to. i tell my partner tht we need to hav lots of sex ttc but it only seems tht we do it once a day on my fertile days then we stop for the mth til the next mth if im not preggo. WHAT AM I OR WE DOING WRONG???? PLS HELP! thxs.