At the end of the day, we're just people reading the internet. We don't know your entire story, or your background, or really anything but what we see on the screen. And we give advice based on what we're reading. You know all those people who post "Am I pregnant?" You know what we say? "We don't know, no one on the internet is going to be able to answer you with any certainty. Talk to your doctor." So I say to you: "We don't know why your husband/boyfriend is treating you this way. No one on the internet is going to be able to answer you with any certainty. Talk to your doctor." Or your mother. Or your sister. Or your girlfriends. Or ANYONE who knows the two of you and has seen the two of you interact and knows MORE than what you're typing on the screen. Because frankly, sweetie, I'm sure there's more to the story than what you're putting here - and I think even you can agree. After all, there was more to the story than what you originally posted, and we responded to what we read. One last thing. YOU quit your job. YOU moved across the state. YOU stay home and take care of him. NONE OF THAT IS HIS DOING. Did you grab you by the hair and force you at gunpoint? (Because if he did - get out. NOW.) No, you made that decision, whether on your own or in conjunction with him. So either find a way to live with it - or find a way to fix it. You don't deserve to be treated like shit. Not by him - but most of all, not by yourself, either.