Why am I not so excited with my 2nd baby??

OMG!  I know exactly how you feel.  You anticipate and hope for so much for your first.  Everything is new and exciting and like WOW!  Your second it's more been there done that, especially if you are having a healthy pregnancy.  It's not that you don't want him and aren't excited about him, but it's nothing new.  I cruised through my second pregnancy barely giving it a thought.  I too got excited to see his ultrasounds, but as it was a healthier pregnancy, I didn't get to see much of them.  I didn't have a wide range of symptoms and barely had any hormone changes.  Our first born, also a boy, was almost 28 months when baby #2 arrived.  I was excited to have him, because he was another addition.  What brought me out of it was wondering how they would be different - and belive me they are night and day different.  Even from the start night and day different.  The only thing that made it a little bad was his birth was horrible - it was fast, hard and hurt (no drugs because it was so fast).  It was hard to bond after feeling disconnected during pregnancy and then that birth - it was hard to feel the closeness and connection that I had with my first.  But I loved him.  I cried when I held him and looked into that round little face.  Don't be too hard on yourself about being unfair to this little guy.  Once he's here, you'll feel it all and see it all through brand new eyes again - because each child you have is special.....PS - I'm on my 3RD BOY!  I so wanted a girl this time, but it's not in God's plan for our family.  Apparently we are a football team in the making - lol!  You'll find that joy you felt before, cut yourself some slack and no you are not alone.  :)