Development

Terrified by a Toy?

What to do if your baby inexplicably loses it over a toy train or Elmo doll

By Teresa Tobat, Parenting
 
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Stephanie Fernando's 6-month-old son was delighted to watch her pull a Tickle Me Cookie Monster out of the box -- until the Torrance, CA, mom started it up. Then, as the toy giggled and vibrated, "Aaron's eyes got really big, and he screamed and began crying uncontrollably. He was extremely freaked!" she says. And he stayed that way: When Aaron started crawling, his parents could keep him corralled simply by plopping Cookie in his way.

Some babies acquire fears of random objects along the developmental path, as when they're still figuring out how an object at rest can suddenly begin guffawing, says Mark Sloan, M.D., a pediatrician in Santa Rosa, CA, and author of Birth Day. Life changes (like a new sibling or a move) can also make a child a little anxious. Other cases, though, remain mysteries: Dr. Sloan's own daughter, he reports, was scared of green pants. So what do you do if your baby inexplicably loses it over a toy train or Mylar balloon?

Offer support
While you know that tiny accordion won't hurt him, your baby doesn't. "Acknowledge that it is frightening," Dr. Sloan suggests, instead of just ignoring the issue.

Try again
Unless your child's fear is interfering with your life, Dr. Sloan advises simply putting away the toy temporarily. It might get a better reception in a few weeks or months.

Don't fret
Most children phase out of their toy fears by age 3, says Dr. Sloan. Before you know it, he'll be a reckless toddler and you'll miss these timid times.



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