"The four of us stuff our bundled-up selves into the car and head to the Jersey shore. We enjoy the salt air and quiet and make plans for next summer. When we get home, we warm up with hot chocolate and s'mores." --Nancy Viau, Mullica Hill, NJ

"I host my annual Gingerbread House Party. The kids get their own aprons, decorations, and gingerbread houses. I let them make a big mess, and we all have a great time!" --Barbara Baker, Phoenix

"We put up the tree and hang our ornaments. Once it gets dark, we plug in the tree lights, lie down underneath, and admire all the twinkling!" --Aimee Dunlow, Rowlett, TX

"My whole family heads to the bowling alley. It's great exercise -- plus, we get to prolong the festivities!" --Katie Eschenbach, Oak Brook, IL

"We start our crafty Christmas gifts. The kids make everything from painted photo frames to beaded necklaces and candles and soap." --Annette Bernard, Wadsworth, OH

"I send the kids to a kickboxing boot camp on Black Friday. That way I can set up the most fragile ornaments, and my husband can hang the lights on the house. The kids are so excited to see the first signs of Christmas!" --Sharon Manginelli, Morganville, NJ

"We've been going to Knoxville's Fantasy of Trees festival ever since my daughter was born. There's something for everyone: fun games and rides for the kids and wonderful crafts and ornaments for moms to buy. All the proceeds go to the local children's hospital, so spending money actually feels good!" --Traci Magee, Oak Ridge, TN

How do you stay sane during the holidays?  Send an e-mail to momexchange@parenting.com and share your ideas.

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