My mother was the same way  -- she'd pick up something for Mari every time she was at the mall. I remember how eager she'd be to lead Mari to my old bedroom, where all these beautiful outfits would be laid out on the bed. Since I will confess to being an absolute kids'-clothing fanatic, Mari's wardrobe was in no need of supplements. But buy my mom did. Most of the time it was stuff on sale, but sometimes the price tag made my eyeballs pop.

I asked her whether she spent too much, but she made it clear that if she couldn't afford it, she wouldn't have bought it. And that was good enough for me because I could tell she got such pleasure out of giving.

You might try to steer your mom toward items your child really needs: "If you see any good sales, Mikey could use some new rain boots." Your mom will likely be more than happy to indulge, and when your son outgrows his lovely things, donate them to a local shelter. Anyway, if the worst thing your mom does is buy your child gifts, sounds like she's a keeper.

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