How to Tell Your Child She's Adopted
Five ways to keep the lines of communication open
Who Else Should Know?
DOCTORS: Supply your pediatrician with the birth parents' medical records, if you have them. Also let him know about the quality of prenatal care received by the birth mother. Both could have an influence on your child's health.
TEACHERS: Tell them on a need-to-know basis. For instance, if your child has a genetic tendency toward learning difficulties, informing teachers might help to make sure his educational needs are met.
FRIENDS AND FAMILY: Share the full story with them only after your child knows it.