Once you've got children, the idea of a city vacation goes from sounding glamorous to overwhelming. But the hassle is small if you plan it right. And the perk is big: enough excitement and variety to keep all of you happy. "In the past ten to fifteen years, there's been a revitalization of city living, and that's helped visitors, too. There are more kid options on menus, more kid-friendly neighborhoods to stroll through," says Donna Airoldi, editorial director of Travelmuse.com. Here's how to make the most of your urban escape.
Do your research. At Frommers.com, search the city name plus "kids" for lots of straightforward info. Then move on to Gocitykids.com. Click on the city you want (it covers more than 50!) and find insider tips on fun things to do. Another online stop: Tripfilms.com lets you choose your destination and watch films, both professional and amateur, made of that locale. Films are updated continuously; at press time, there were 2,500. Even with all that Internet prep, you'll want a good guidebook to tromp around with so you're prepared for spur-of-the-moment choices. We like Fodor's With Kids city series.
Be stay-over savvy. Yes, city hotel rooms are tiny and pricey. So check out HomewoodSuites.com. You'll likely find that your gang can spread out in a mini-apartment for roughly the same price as squeezing into a closetlike hotel room. It has locations in major metro areas across the country. The clincher: A hot breakfast's included. EmbassySuites.com is another option.
Take the train (or bus). Most cities have sites that plan routes for you, so no need to fork over for taxis because you're afraid of getting lost. Hopstop.com is ideal for the biggies, but for smaller cities, Google the name of the city plus "transportation authority" or "trip planner."
Freeload! Many museums have free admission one day a week; check the website. For example, almost all the San Diego museums are gratis on Tuesdays. Another trick to see more for less scratch? Bundle attraction entrance fees. At Citypass.com, you can buy a book of tickets for the most popular draws in any of 11 cities for about half what you'd pay if you bought them at the gates.
Give in to wanderlust. Unplanned city experiences are great -- a drum circle breaks out in the park, a street performer picks you out of the crowd, or you spot Sarah Jessica Parker! Ethnic neighborhoods are good to start in. Search out an Italian festival or a bustling Asian market.