Funny, but maybe not the best strategy. Instead, Kristy persuaded her to write a letter to the principal. So Baylee did -- and convinced her to allow balls at recess again. Success!
Tweens are more likely to protest what they see as injustice because they have a better sense of what's fair. "Younger kids tend to think whatever adults say is sacrosanct," says Myrna Shure, Ph.D., author of Thinking Parent, Thinking Child. Tweens who question authority are starting to develop values.
You can help kids learn to protest effectively and respectfully by encouraging them to:
See through others' eyes. Help them think about the reasons behind the rule.
Problem-solve. Suggest they come up with a realistic, concrete plan that would address the rule makers' concerns.
Learn perspective. If they want to protest everything, help them set priorities. Ask, "How important would you rate this problem, from one to ten?" Knowing that they can choose their battles will also help them feel more in control.