While I was shopping for ironic tees for Preston on Saturday—shirts that say “Dude” and “Aloha” and all kinds of ridiculous things—I came up with a few of my own, for women going through infertility. 

For better or worse, I feel like a changed woman since going through secondary infertility, and all the ups and downs we’ve been through over the last year or so. Here are some reasons why...

“Just relax and you’ll get pregnant” is a big bunch of b.s. My relaxing vice used to be a bottle of wine, but ever since those hormone-induced migraines I suffered last year, I've pretty much given up alcohol altogether. 

This is an actual thing now, for infertile couples trying to conceive, according to a recent New York Times Motherlode blog. Would you try to fund your infertility treatments this way? Would you help someone else fund theirs?