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I threw up a lot in my mouth when I got to the Placenta Teddy Bear WHAT THE ? Whyy ppl why.. thats disturbing maybe something Hannibal lecter would have in his place if it made it past his mouth.

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Why do people think it's ok to strap your kid in a stroller when you want to have control over them but it's not ok to let them have some freedom to explore safely on a harness! The harness is BETTER in the sense that it doesn't trap them in an enclosed space and they are allowed to exercise. This is especially good for my daughter who at 16m, is very curious and who I'd hate to stunt her development using a stroller ALL THE TIME. I use strollers, but I'm tired of all the judgment. Did you know that kids in the U.S. as young as 3 get abducted and sold? I'd rather "leash" my kid than be the mom crying on tv about turning away for "just a second." If you have kids, you know that can happen.

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Why do people think it's ok to strap your kid in a stroller when you want to have control over them but it's not ok to let them have some freedom to explore safely on a harness! The harness is BETTER in the sense that it doesn't trap them in an enclosed space and they are allowed to exercise. This is especially good for my daughter who at 16m, is very curious and who I'd hate to stunt her development using a stroller ALL THE TIME. I use strollers, but I'm tired of all the judgment. Did you know that kids in the U.S. as young as 3 get abducted and sold? I'd rather "leash" my kid than be the mom crying on tv about turning away for "just a second." If you have kids, you know that can happen.

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Why do people think it's ok to strap your kid in a stroller when you want to have control over them but it's not ok to let them have some freedom to explore safely on a harness! The harness is BETTER in the sense that it doesn't trap them in an enclosed space and they are allowed to exercise. This is especially good for my daughter who at 16m, is very curious and who I'd hate to stunt her development using a stroller ALL THE TIME. I use strollers, but I'm tired of all the judgment. Did you know that kids in the U.S. as young as 3 get abducted and sold? I'd rather "leash" my kid than be the mom crying on tv about turning away for "just a second." If you have kids, you know that can happen.

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Why do some think it's ok to strap your kid in a stroller all day when you want control, but not use a harness. At least with a harness, they get exercise and have freedom to explore. Love my stroller, but don't want to stunt my DD growth b/c someone else is upset with the harness. Kids as young as 3 get abducted and sold into slavery people. I'm not going to be the mom on tv crying about turning away for just a second and never see my DD again. If you have kids, you know what I mean.

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Why do people think it's ok to strap your kid in a stroller when you want to have control over them but it's not ok to let them have some freedom to explore safely on a harness! The harness is BETTER in the sense that it doesn't trap them in an enclosed space and they are allowed to exercise. This is especially good for my daughter who at 16m, is very curious and who I'd hate to stunt her development using a stroller ALL THE TIME. I use strollers, but I'm tired of all the judgment. Did you know that kids in the U.S. as young as 3 get abducted and sold? I'd rather "leash" my kid than be the mom crying on tv about turning away for "just a second." If you have kids, you know that can happen.

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OOPS sorry for all the same comments. It kept telling me to change it to under 700 chars! Didn't realize it posted!

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Ok...the leash, try having 5 kids all very close in age and THEN tell me not to use one! The placenta bear...EWWWWWWWWWWWW. The hands, I love this idea!! The belly tub, seriously? Get a bucket at any department store, it'll save you a LOT of money. The twig crayons...COME ON!! Now, the one that worries me is the pacifier, I'm not sure about the jewels (brand), but I do know the beads (same brand) have too much lead content.

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WOW @ avagraciemom's response! KUDOS TO YOU! That never even crossed my mind but you couldn't have said it better!

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Oviusly whatmight be useful for some may not be for others. Some kids react different in different envorinments. So if you use the leash for your kid flaunt it and stop thinking what others might think. Hey if it makes your life alot easier than dont worry. And all you haters out there that you think that disciplining a child is the right way you are soo wrong . Hopefully you dont have a child with autism or other similar disorders if you did you wold not be judgmental. And you p/mag im dissapointed because instead of giving help to others you are being judgemnetal.

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All you haters please stop judging others and be happy. All kids are different and they act different so if your child behaves and your neighbors doe not it does not mean that you are the better parent it just means that your child may not have troble behaving but might have trouble socializing with others. And for the mag im ashamed because you are being judgemental shame on you

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I used a harness for my second child who is now 32 years old. Yes, I got some looks and a couple of comments, but I had peace of mind and she really didn't mind wearing it. My older child never needed one, but she did. For those of you with opposing views, not every child is alike. My daughter was not unruly or disobedient, but she was curious and could wander out of my sight in seconds. The harness was precious to me and until you walk in my shoes, don't judge please.

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U could say strollers R degrading also! R our kids groceries or something? Stop being a lazy parent and just pick up UR kid already! Lol! I obviously don't believe strollers are bad, just making a point. My son LOVES his harness! He doesn't ever think he's being treated like a dog. All he thinks is, "Good! I don't have to be strapped down in a stroller anymore!" And I use my harness while holding my son's hand, because I worry about my child being stolen, run over, lost, hurt, etc. a lot more than I worry about any dog. I keep a VERY good eye on him while we R out and he isn't prone to running away, but Y not use it if it gives extra protection and avoids tantrums and power struggles?

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As a parent of a special-needs child, my son's "falling" reflexes developed late. He was prone to trip and hit his head. And he did, a lot, and I felt like a helicopter parent. But what can you do when your 3 ft tall boy can't break his fall? The helmet is a safety product that meets a need. The same can be said of some of the other products. I'm astonished that the author failed to imagine that. It makes the article nothing more than opinion and filler. Next time around, do your homework or go test the products - that would have value! Sasha Emmons, you and your editor need to consider your audience.

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I completely DISAGREE that the harness is unnecessary. Yes, children can be taught to hold hands (and having a harness can facilitate this), but in certain circumstances that isn't enough. Nor is it enough when a parent has more than one child. It was a godsend with my now 4 year old and I don't regret it for a moment. Once my twins are walking, we will also use a harness. It helped frequently to allow my child the choice of stroller or "mr. bear" and for me to know that they couldn't dart away. Sorry, you dropped the ball completely on this one.

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i personaly like the leash im a mother of three a 3 year old 2 year oald and a six month old and where im at kids cant ride in the basket in the stores so the leash helps me keep them near while shopping, im not going to let my babies walk around a store without one there are too many potentaly dangerous people in this world to take any chances and youd have to sit with my kids for 10 minutes to know that they are just too adhd to stand dill for far too long.

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Can I just say the leash DOES NOT protect your child from being abducted...just because you leash your kid doesn't mean they are safe...just last week a child was abducted from a mall in LA while on the leash...and since he was leashed, the mom didn't realize he was gone until it was way to late...how easy is it to cut the leash, and since mom has a false sense of security walking away with the little one is easy. I have a one son (and one on the way) so I know its easier said than done, but if you can't take care of your kid when your out and about, and don't trust them to do what you need them to, then DON'T take them with you!!!

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To sabrina.a.gordon: Thank you for your kind comments. Although I'm sure the article was written for entertainment purposes and for a laugh, quite a few of the comments that are posted are definately NOT entertaining or funny, they are downright insulting w/out taking into consideration why a parent or family may use one the products featured. It just made me angry that some would judge another so harshly w/out having knowlege of a child's situation.

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I dont agree with the leashes. My child will never have one. It takes discipline.

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I agree with amavanesyan. I would rather have my daughter attached to my hip or holding my hand then use a leash and risk abduction.

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Now that I have actually looked at the products, I must say most of them are rediculous. I would use the Zaky Infant Pillow. My baby loves to be held. She slept with me for a while BECAUSE she loves to be held, and this pillow would help me MAJORLY. :)

I must say, I wasnt judging anyone. If you wanna "leash" you kid its your right. :) I just perfer not to "leash" mine. :)

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I don't have kid yet, but I will not say that I agree or disagree with a kid leash. I just want to say that I didn't even know it existed before now! I am 28 and I swear I never saw that in all my life! In fact after reading all the comments here I wonder if I am normal...

And for the potty mitts I agree that it's completely useless and bad for the environment (and surely your wallet!) Do you know that most of the public toilet seats have a smaller concentration of germs than your average keyboard? And anyway your child can chew on these mitts just after they grab the seat right?

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The nasal aspirator actually comes in handy for our toddler. It plays music which he likes and he thinks its kinda funny when it buzzes. He will actually do it himself when he really needs it. Not to mention, I think it fairly inexpensive.

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um thr freakin pacifire is adorable....girls do need to be blinged out

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As a father of five, stepfather of 3 more, Grandfather of 25, and great grandfather of 3; I think that any parent who fails to get a decent harness and leash for their active children should be charged with neglect or abuse and possibly both. Properly used, the child is kept safe without stress.

The child has more freedom than if held by the hand and there is no reason for yelling or spanking thereby saving a lot of stress for both the parent and the child.

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For comparison, both my sister and I were leashed. Neither of us turned out in any way unhealthy or unbalanced. Neither of us have any ill feelings about this. We just really liked to explore, and would do so to the fullest extent we could. My husband, on the other hand, was never leashed. His mother kept him close by a series of threats and orders, resulting in his staying close because he was terrified. (This is something related to me by my mil with pride as an example of how I should raise my dd). Which is better parenting? My parents, who used leashes to allow us freedom to explore safely, or my mother-in-law, who never used a leash but had a child who was terrified of her?

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Mom of, age: 22,21,13,11 & grandma of 10 mths JUDGEMENTAL folks, NO 2 KIDS ARE THE SAME Had 4, what works w/ 1 doesn’t always work w/others 20 yrs ago I thought leashes were stupid now I would find the money for it My kids were taught-hold sides of the cart or sides of the stroller None were harmed but my sanity was tested Running for 1, w/ 1 in the cart is just as dangerous My 11 yr old still holds sides of cart & my hand but when she was 13 mths till age of 7ish?..you couldn’t even go to bathroom for 30 seconds w/out her escaping

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Cont'd
She even escaped kindergarten once Not a bad child just a very curious child who is very well behaved, now Was she un-disciplined? No just active and curious Raised w/out med's or spankings. Don't judge w/out walking in..

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I completely agree with KELLI0023!!! A leash?!?! How about you be a good parent and discipline your child the first few times you bring him out in public, then he wont run away from you!! Do you have any idea how demeaning that is for your child?!?!? Completely ridiculous!

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I believe the leash for kids is great. I swore yrs ago I would never get one for my child. Thought it degrading, but they way people are today, I got one for my son. He is very independant and curious and sometimes will let go of my hand quickly to go and see something. It happens so quickly, what if that short sec, someone has been waiting for that exact moment and tries taking your kid? To many kids are being kidnapped, not taking the chance. Plus when you have a toddler that has a mind of their own...and the battery operated nasal asperator,got one of them too. Ever try taking one of them to a 1 yr old? The battery one makes it so much quicker and less struggling with your child/

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OMG! the placenta bear sure was scary...what's the point in saving it. the tummy tub looks like one of those tubs you can buy at the store for about $8 dollars. the tube for boys to pee in and those pee pee teepee's are just ridiculous! I agree with most of the moms who use the leash on their children. I have a doggie backpack harness leash for my 3 yr. old. i dont care what anyone says, my boy is safe and i specially use it at church to keep him close to me. i've gotten some people at church say its cute and some see how active he is and understand why i put it on him. if others arent going to take care of our children and chase after them then they need to mind their own business:)

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Wondering if Ms. Emmons did her research into these products before writing about their 'ridiculousness'. The Zaky, however 'creepy' she finds the design to be, has been truly a blessing for premature infants, babies suffering from drug withdrawl, and other infants with sleep/anxiety issues. Its use in over 300 hospitals nationwide demonstrate its effectiveness. The company is also committed to charity, participating in donating their product to hospitals in need. That hardly seems ridiculous at all to me. http://www.zakeez.com.

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I stand by what I said. The only reason some of your are so defensive of how you leash your child is because you don't want to admit what a slacker mother you are. You are all throwing out very repetitive excuses. If you can't teach a 2 year old how to behave and hold your hand, it's because you lack basic parenting skills. I'm sure you do other things well but teaching your child how to behave when out is obviously an area you struggle with if you "need" to use a leash. Be a better mother. Only the family DOG should have a leash.

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I always hold my childs hand and use a leash to attach her to my clothes it only takes an instant for the curiuosity of something on the other side of the road for a child to get hit she has been taught about road rules but kids will always be kids or in a crowd for them to get knocked out of your hand it is an added peace of mind that is far more acceptable than the loss of a child that could have been prevented how many times have you heard I only looked away for a second....

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Parents should be embarassed to tote their kids around with a leash. It's called teaching your child boundaries! It's more humiliating to the parent than it is to the child

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that was pointless

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All you anti-leash people need to quit being ignorant. It's not bad parenting to want an extra layer of safety for your child. My son has a leash because he's a toddler and I can't guarantee that he won't decide to run after something. My son knows how to behave in public, he stays right at my side and holds my hand but I like the idea of having an extra layer of security for those occasions when he decides he wants to run. Plus, a child in a leash is less likely to be snatched than a child just holding hands.

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The Bebesounds Nasal Aspirator should not be on this list. It works awesome. When my baby first had a cold he sounded miserable, because his nose was so clogged. They can't blow there nose to get it out and the manual aspirators are hard to us. I found this one. The noise it makes is not that loud and it also plays music and within a few seconds his nose is clear. I have already recommended this to friends and they also love it.

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yes some of these are silly, but several are very handy. have u ever tried to control 3-4 toddlers that are all trying to go in different directions? those harnesses are a god send. they are also not a new item, my mother had to use one on my brother-and this was about 40 years ago- they are just cuter now. the power nasel thingy is also great;trying to suction a wiggly sick kid is not an easy thing to do. as to the helmet--- no head injury is a good thing: kids skulls are still a little soft for a couple of years, so anything that helps is fantastic! one last word on the harness------ if more parents used them there would be less dead kids!!!

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The hot dog cutter is the most laziest thing I have ever seen, like really? Plus anything that can fit in your childs mouth is a choking hazard, The harness on the other hand, eh idk about that one, I have 2 boys who love to run around but they also know when is the appropriate time to run around, I think it's due to the fact that their step-dad and I scare them, haha it maybe mean but my kids are not the ones in walmart screaming and crying because they can't have some thing. they start whining they get a smack on their mouth, even the 2 year old. but that's just me so for the other ppl who don't smack their kids around and don't put that fear in their child(ren) then yeah they need it...

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My personal opinion is Leash Backpacks are still leashes. Become a good parent and TEACh your child how to act right. Treat them like dogs and they will act like dogs. I have a nieghbor who "WALKS" his kid to the store and back every day past my house and tugs and pulls on this little kid. They are not animals. Have some concern for how your children are growing up. Should we put a leash outside too? FORGET THAT MY SON IS HUMAN

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Pure Lazy parenting skills! Period.

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The tummy tub, at one point I was looking for it but the price it should have cost less, I saw it in the program called Good Day one day and I thought it was cool they said it makes the baby feel warm like being in a womb. In the program they had 5 babies and one of them was splashing water I thought it was adorable how happy the baby was in this transparent bucket of water it was funny , but for $40 no not worth that kind of money.

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My daughter was born 3 months early, and is now turning two. She walks and runs and eats, exept she doesn't quite understand yet. So the harnass is perfect for me, especially in South-Africa, where kids get stolen in a second. You can say that i don't look after her, because i do, but someone just takes a second of your time, and your child is gone. To be found raped and murdered. I vote 'yes' to the harnass.

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I love the harness, i'd rather keep my daughter safe than sorry. In South-Africa, as white people, we must be extra carefull. It takes a second, and your child is gone. To be found in a sewer raped and murdered. I love the harness...

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The Harness Leash "Ridiculous?” Your author so glibly states, "most kids should just be taught to hold hands and stay where their parents can see them” Clearly your author is NOT a parent of a special needs child! Today, 1 in 110 kids have an autistic spectrum diagnosis. And ASD is just one of hundreds of special needs that negatively impacts a child's behavior and his/her ability to learn. This attitude from other Moms that we should simply "just do our job better" HURTS EVERY PARENT OF A SPECIAL NEEDS CHILD. We struggle on a daily basis with our child who doesn’t respond to a couple of timeouts/consequences. We certainly do not need your judgmental attitude, as we feel bad enough already!

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Is harness leash "Ridiculous?” Your author so glibly states, "most kids should just be taught to hold hands and stay where their parents can see them” Clearly your author is NOT a parent of a special needs child! Today, 1 in 110 kids have an autistic spectrum diagnosis. And ASD is just one of hundreds of special needs that negatively impacts a child's behavior and his/her ability to learn. This attitude from other Moms that we should simply "just do our job better" HURTS EVERY PARENT OF A SPECIAL NEEDS CHILD. We struggle on a daily basis with our child who doesn’t respond to a couple of timeouts/consequences. We certainly do not need your judgmental attitude, as we feel bad enough already.

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maybe Sasha Emmons needs to do her research a little more thoroughly. The Zaky hands are used for premature and sick infants in the hospital. They provide comfort and positioning for the babies and are a wonderful product. They most certainly aren't creepy when you see how they help position a fragile 24 week infant and help bring comfort to such a tiny baby. They were made after a family had their own hospital experience and I find it rude and uneducated to write about something that you obviously know nothing about.

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I have to disagree on the battery operated nasal aspirator. I love it! It works great for my 2 year old, not so much for babies. The hospital issued one works best for the baby, but the battery one works wonders. At 2 they still can't blow their noses so I use this and couldn't live without it!!!!

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I know that the harness was essential for us when my son was little. He has autism, and would take off any time you turned your back. For those of you that don't know, most autistic kids don't like to be touched sometimes and they also get very scared by loud noises. He is now 9 and through many years of therapy is a very changed kid, but I know ages 1-3 that harness was a Godsend.

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