So i am now 29 weeks pregnant and recently a problem has risen in my home... My fiancé's friend has recently moved in with us.. Ill give you guys the whole low down on this, so my fiancé's friend Ron had gotten kicked out of his home because him and his ex wife were fighting. My fiancé trying to be a nice guy and hoping his friend would split our expensive rent had asked him if he wanted to move in with us. Now me.. i was not too sure about it at first but because we have a baby on the way i figured sure, why not save some cash so we can buy the essentials for our baby. so after an hour of my fiancé trying to convince me i finally agreed and his friend was to move in that night. He showed up we blew up the air mattress and placed it in our living room since we only have a one bedroom apartment. At first everything was nice. He helped keep the house clean, washed his dishes, kept his stuff off the floor, had good manners and even got my fiancé helping more around the house. But as time passed by he started leaving his laundry on our living room floor... He would leave his dishes expecting me to wash them, he would put his dirty shoes ON TOP of my fiancé's shoes on our small shoe spot and would lay his stuff out around not caring if he had to push our stuff out of the way. On top of that. he messes up the fridge after i try and tell them to keep it clean, he is unbelievably ill mannered now; burping, farting, and making dirty comments with ought shame. I let his behavior slide for about two weeks. But now, his rude behavior is rubbing off onto my fiancé!! and as if thats not enough, My fiancé is starting to make remarks as if he were single! ( wanting to go out and leave me home, wanting to drink, and making remarks about other womens appearances ) So i am utterly and completely at a loss. Im having a baby in a little less of two months and this is most definitely NOT the example he should have around him. So what should i do? MY fiancé is telling me we need him to live with us because we need to save the money. and hes telling me we will move to a bigger apartment so he has his own room.. but im not sure if that will fix anything..
thank you for reading... im truly desperate. And honestly can barely clean up after myself let alone two grown men.