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im 21 me and my husband has been 2 gather for 2 years and we have been trying for a year and still no luck what should we do??

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we are so ready for a baby and it seems like ppl that dont want a baby gets to have one and the ones that want a baby cant have one like me and my husband please let me know how to go about getting pregnant

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Have you tried the ovulation predictors? Those were the best thing I tried while trying to concieve.
RELAX! If you are both healthy & have had no major issues with your health in the past just relax. More that likely it'll happen when you least expect it.. stressing out actually is counter productive to concieving. Try a glass a wine, a warm bath  relax as much as possible. Also I've heard women concieve easier if they have a few orgasims before the man does.. something about opening up the cervic more & relaxing the tissue.. it's something to try.
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I'm so sorry the 1st one I did with ms word. We tried to get conceive too I know this may sound crazy but try this..... What we did was have sex like crazy like 4 to 5 times a day. And then after you have sex. You have to lay flat on your back and put a pillow under your butt. Then put your legs on the wall stay this way for like 20 to 30 minutes. This worked like a charm for us. Good luck and try to chill out trust me it will happen for you.
It depends on alot of things including the regularity of your cycle and hormone levels. But after a year you should talk to your doctor so he can do some tests. I would come prepared with alot of information including a chart of your last three menstral periods, any abnormal things about your period such as alot of pain in your back or pelvis, or any spotting in between periods.I'd take your husband because usualy after a year the first thing the doctor wants done is a semen analysis.
I don't recomend having sex 4-5 times a day  like one person said. Sperm need time to build back up. After taking fertility drugs they told us to have sex every other day when I was ovulating. I have been seeing a fertility expert for mine and my husbands secondary infertility. That is what I reccomend to you, go see a specialist. They know more to help you and sometime it can be somthing very simple. They will first run blood tests to see if they can find the root of your problem. Hope this helps.

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