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Could I be pregnant or is something wrong?

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Hello. I'm 19 years old and just got married about a month ago. Yes I know that I'm young but the military makes you do crazy things. Back around mid November 2014, I decided to go on birth control and chose the depo provera shot. I had noticed a lot of side effects with that and it caused me to be super emotional and I got depressed. Before the shot, my periods were once a month for like 4-5 days, pretty normal. But while on the shot, I was having periods 2 weeks on and 2 weeks off for about 2 and a half months. When it was time to go get my second shot, I decided not to do depo anymore and I ended up getting a constant period for 6 weeks straight from December into January. This was my bodies way of trying to get my hormones back in action regularly. I went on the pill to try and regulate my periods. Well they got back to being normal for the month of January and then February too. However my husband didn't like me being on birth control at all because it was really affecting me and my body so we decided to go off of it. I haven't been on it since February 12th and my periods are going crazy again. In February I had 2 periods. In March I had 2 and a half. Now here it is only April 11th and I just finished my period on the 2nd. However on the 8th I had some faint spotting and then the 9th it got heavier and yesterday on the 10th I stayed in bed all day with the worst cramps of my life. And that says a lot because even with my wacky irregular periods I almost never have cramps and when I have it's like 1 or 2 and then I'm fine. But in the last 3 weeks or more (even while on my period), my husband and I have been sexually active almost daily (it's the honeymoon phase) but we have not been using any protection (birth control nor condoms) and he doesn't pull out. There is a great possibility I could be pregnant and the bleeding that I am experiencing now could be implantation bleeding. But I know that with such irregular periods it's not as likely and that it can affect fertility. When trying to look up my symptoms, I got a variety of things from it could just be the withdrawal from birth control to being a possible infection to what I'm experiencing now could be an ectopic pregnancy or a miscarriage. These answers kinda freaked me out and I think my stress has made my symptoms worse today. But I just want to know if anyone else has experienced anything similar or has any advice other than going to the doctor? I'm going to see a doctor this week. I'm young and afraid of it being something serious that could hinder my chances of ever becoming a mother. Please let me know what you think! (:

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