I'm with drkpriestess. This is unacceptable behavior. It is also immature and abusive. You are the mother of his child and you deserve respect. I recommend marriage counceling and if that doesn't work...Run! Seriously. I left my first 'husband' because he was abusive and an alcoholic. I realized that what he was doing to me was ultimately going to mentally damage my daughter. I moved on and found a respectful and loving man who is a great husband, a loving step-father, and will be a good role-model for my daughter and the baby I'm carrying. Remember, it's okay to be selfish if what's best for you is also going to be what's best for your children! It sounds like your husband isn't as bad as my alcoholic ex though, so marriage counseling may really work wonders for you...especially if the counselor has a lot of experience and can help your husband wake up and show some respect!Men always look. Even the good ones. But the man who is truly in love with you will always make it clear that you are the best of the best. That in his eyes, you are the most attractive woman in the world to him (and better than any swimsuit/lingerie model because they're just eye candy, and not the love of their life and the mother of their children). Take heart and be strong.