Ok. So. I am a 28 year old mother of two little girls who are 7 and 4. I have been married for 4 years. I work full time 3rd shift and my husband works during the day, his hour are very flexible. My issue is he wont help at all. I do everything!! I go to work Sunday night thru Thursday night 11pm-7 am, after getting out of work I stay awake and get my oldest ready and see her off to school. My 4 year didn't meet the age deadline with her birthday being in December so she is still home with me all day. My husband sleeps in every day then gets up and goes to work. So I clean, do all the dishes and laundry and take care of the kids and put them to bed all by myself on 2 hours of sleep a day. He sometimes has friends over and I have to clean up after them as well. He goes and hangs out with friends while he could be home helping or letting me sleep for a bit. I don't know what to do. He doesn't help. He is most of the time home for bed time but never offers to help, just sits and plays on his phone. I'm exhausted and at a loss of what to do..any suggestions?