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My fiance'&I are trying to conceive? we need HELP FAST!!!

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I JUST TURND 30 YRS OLD THIS PAST APRIL 2011AND HE IS 27 YRS OLD WE HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET PREGNANT FOR ALMOST 4YRS NOW AND NOTHING.IS THIS NOT WORKING BECAUSE HE WORKS ALL THROUGH THE WEEK AND WE ONLY SEE EACH OTHER ON WEEKENDS AND HAVE SEX ONCE OUT THE WEEK?OR COULD IT BE BECAUSE OF MY WEIGHT AND AGE AND THAT I HAVE IRREGULAR PERIODS SUMTIMES?OR BECAUSE HE'S ALWAYS STRESSED OUT ABOUT SOMETHING? SHOULD I GO TO C AN OBGYN FIRST TO C IF ITS ME?COULD SOMEONE HELP US WITH THIS WE OPEN TO ANY ADVICE OR TIPS U MAY HAVE FOR US EMAIL ME AT:steph_wms@yahoo.com WITH ANY ADVICE WE REALLY WANT A BABY THANK YOU LOTS, babycrazi

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I think you should consult with a doctor. Also, try and over-the-counter ovulation kit. I had trouble getting pregnant and my insurance doesn't cover any fertility tests or treatments. I work at a doctor's office and a nurse said, figure out when you ovulate and I promise you you'll have a baby. And I did!
go to your doctor, try an ovulation predictor. there is one on this site. also check this site for information on infertility, and tips on getting pregnant. your best bet would be to have sex every other day. if your not super fertile, once a week may not be enough. clearly, it's not. elevate your hips after sex. there's a lot that you can do, so like i said, check out the infertility section on this site for further information.
I agree with kimmieapples and pinkpaisley, and ovulation test kit would definately help the process. I know elevating your hips may sound ridiculous, but I tried that method, and as silly as it is I got pregnant a few weeks later and I did it every time after sex. A friend of mine did that as well and it worked for her too, so I think there is some truth to that method. The other thing you need to do, and it's extremely HARD, relax and don't think about it so much. I had trouble conceiving too and all my friends told me that the second I stop thinking about it, it will happen, and it did. And it was weird because we only had sex twice the month before I realized I was pregnant. Seriously, do not stress, relax and don't think about it so much. Stress can play a big part in your problem too. Another thing I did was pray to God, every day. It does say in the bible that God hears all prayers and he will hear yours too. Good luck, your in my prayers too. :-)
Try next :- femara - the gynecology doctor can prescribe you- herbs-acupunctureI had 3 unsucsessful IUI's but after I tryed this I am 5 weeks pregnant now. Good luck
if you only have sex once a week you may be missing your ovulation. you will have to find out when you ovulate and make sure you have sex those days or it wont work.

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