Do not worry!!!! I know how it feels when you are pregnant and do not want to be around kids.... They are very exhausting, and even if they want to listen to your stomach and talk about baby things, sometimes it is just too much to deal with them. Especially if it is your first child, you are focused on YOU!!! As for a few days to relax and rest after baby is born, that is a perfectly normal, smart thing to do. You're going to be busy learning all the little quirks your baby has, what they like and what they don't, and you won't have the energy to please another child for the first few days. What my husband and I did was ban visitors for a week, so that we could both get used to our new baby girl. If you let people (or in this case, his daughter) visit in the hospital, she'll feel included but won't be as much of a strain on you because you know it'll only last a short time, and nothing is required of you except to lay there and look a bit exhausted, haha~ good luck to you and happy mothering!!!