I am having an issue with certain family members. I am currently pregenant with my 3rd child. My husband works, I work in home, and we own our home and can finacially have another child. Now my cousin and his wife are trying to have a 2nd child. Here is the problem, they live with his mother (my aunt). He works, she does not, she can not drive, and they live in a small room together ( my cousin, his wife and their first child).. They ask my opinion of them trying to have a second child and I told them they were down right stupid to be even thinking of baby number 2. They can not afford the first. When I found out I was pregnant with our first, we were expected to live on our own and not depend finacially on our family. But my cousin and his wife depend on everyone and even expected me to give them clothes that I had paid for. I have family members saying I am wrong for giving my real opinion, even though I was asked. I keep my mouth shut if they do not ask.
Should I just tell them what they want to hear???