I don't think you are crazy at all. Your concerns seem completely valid to me. In fact, I've always heard that if you have quick labors and births in your previous pregnancy, your current one will be even quicker. I would be very concerned. My 2nd son was born only 2 hours and 45 minutes after my contractions started. My doctor wasn't there either and they were holding my sons head in until the physicians assistant for another doctor walked in the room. It was horrible. You need someone who will listen to you. Can a midwife deliver you by c-section if the baby doesn't turn or will you have emergency ob's do it? I've never had a baby be breach before, I know in some states you can elect to have a vag breach baby, but it's very dangerous for the baby and I think hurts like you know what for you. I wouldn't recommend it, but I've seen it on TLC before. I don't know what to tell you about how to get the baby to flip, but we're here to listen to you vent. And validate your concerns, you are absolutely right to be worried and absolutely right to be mad she's not listening..that's supposed to be one of the benefits of a midwife, someone who knows you and listens to your wishes. I'm sorry you are going through this again. Wish I could help more!