Think before you unbutton. Does he just need a cuddle? A sling or front carrier might give him the contact he craves and free up your arms for a bit.
Try a pacifier. If he's been breastfeeding well and gaining weight, try switching to the paci after he's fed. Babies love nursing, but after a while it's just nonnutritive sucking (ask your doctor to be sure).
Keep his options open. If he's drifting off to sleep, place him in a crib for a nap. If he's awake, offer a Binky, then distract him with activities like reading a book or going for a walk.
Know he'll grow out of it soon. But for now, if you don't mind nursing in a cozy chair all day, grab some good books and get comfortable!
Do's and don'ts when dealing with your little sucker!
- Try a diaper or clothing change if he's uncomfortable
- Occupy him with fun activities
- Offer a pacifier or thumb
- Hand him off to Daddy or Grandma
- Ignore a crying newborn
- Blame yourself
- Quit nursing if you'll regret it (it will take time for the two of you to learn how; your pediatrician can help)
- Underestimate your capabilities